Understanding Childhood Sexual Abuse: You're Not Alone
If you're navigating through this difficult time, awaiting support, know that you're not alone. Recent statistics from the Sexual Violence Survey 2022 regarding childhood experiences in Ireland paint a picture of the realities many have faced, just like you. It's important to understand these realities, not just as numbers, but as shared experiences that highlight the need for support and healing.
A staggering 73% of young adults aged 18-24 who endured contact sexual violence as a child reported that another child was the perpetrator. This statistic isn't just a number; it reflects the complex nature of abuse and the various forms it can take. Understanding this can be a step towards recognizing that abuse can occur in ways and from individuals you might not expect.
For women, 25% reported experiencing non-contact sexual violence as a child. This form of abuse, while not involving physical contact, can leave deep emotional scars and long-lasting effects. If you relate to this, know that your experience is valid, and the impact it has had on you deserves attention and care.
The survey also revealed that 10% of men were made to look at unwanted pornographic material when they were children. To those men who have had such experiences, it's crucial to understand that this too is a form of abuse, and your experiences should not be diminished or overlooked.
A notable 32% of adults who experienced contact sexual violence as a child reported that it occurred in a public place or outdoors. This statistic is a stark reminder that abuse doesn't only happen behind closed doors but can occur in places where one should feel safe and secure.
It's important to note that these figures reflect past experiences of adults currently residing in Ireland and do not necessarily represent the current levels of child sexual violence. However, they do shed light on the pervasiveness of this issue in our society and the importance of addressing it.
If you're reading this, you might feel a range of emotions – from anger and confusion to sadness and isolation. It's critical to understand that what happened to you is not your fault. You are not to blame for the actions of others. The weight of guilt does not belong on your shoulders.
As you wait for your appointment, please know that help is available and healing is possible. The Waterford Rape and Sexual Abuse Centre is here to support you. We offer a safe, confidential space where you can share your story, receive the care you deserve, and start your journey towards healing.
If you're ready to take the next step or just need someone to talk to, please get in touch with us. Your voice matters, your experiences are valid, and you deserve to be heard and helped. Together, we can work towards a future where you can heal and find peace.
If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual violence of any form, reach out to us at the Waterford Rape and Sexual Abuse Centre. Our compassionate team is here to listen, support, and guide you towards healing. You're not alone in this – let's take the next step together.
Some Resources:
"So, this is sexual abuse?" is a new child-friendly booklet for teenagers (aged 12 and up), to explore some of the ways in which sexual abuse and exploitation of children can occur today.